Beware - Borders and Boundaries

Have you ever had someone stand up in the face when I'm talking? Very close, in fact, that the letter "S" results in unwanted room? Often when we are outside networks, and we are in a noisy environment where people try to talk louder to be heard over people trying to talk louder to be heard, and it results in a roar which makes it difficult for normal conversation.
Temptation in this atmosphere becomes very close to someone else so they can hear you and you them. This can result in being too close to the other person who can be very uncomfortable for them. Adding to this discomfort when we were drinking and the person speaking is not.

Each of us has our own comfort zone boundary. This is the space around us that when someone enters the last begin to feel uncomfortable. A good way to connect is to remember if you have the argument where someone got in your face, and maybe even their finger is very close to it. Remember how it made you feel? In most cases, makes a person feel more angry.

In a networked environment, it is important to maintain the same distance from the person to whom you speak. This should be the distance of almost length arms. Most peoples comfort boundary is the length of the arm. If you are getting very close to a person in conversation, imagine if you raise your arm, which is the distance that must be someone else. If they approach you in the course of conversation, it is acceptable for them to come closer. If it is acceptable for you, then continued to speak at this distance.

Sometimes you can tell if you're too close to someone if they seem to be the way back while talking to them. If it seems to go further away from you, do not move to be closer to them. It stops when you reach the distance that was comfortable with. If you turn away, of course, it is time to find someone else to talk to.

To be more effective in its efforts to build relationships with others, it is important to keep most of these things in mind. Remember that there is no difference between what you say to someone if they do not participate in the conversation. Can celebrate the good of the border give you the edge you need to operate the networks.